Start with the October 2020 Horoscope Overview Here.
October will kick off with а Full Moon conjunct Chiron in your 10th House, dear Cancer – the place where all the action has been happening for you over the last couple of weeks, due to Mars being retrograde there! (please check the materials on Mars Retrograde for Cancer and the September New Moon, as all events are interrelated)
Luckily, I have some good news for you, dear Cancers! This Full Moon in your 10th, marks an important point in your journey, and will offer some sense of relief and completion as the events around it unfold. You will be given a small reward for all the hard work you have been doing and all the challenges you have been facing, and this will come in the form of some emotional relief, and
Someone with authority may come up in your life as a soul-saving knight!
There may be a male figure, who has played an important role in your life in forming your personality, who turns up and helps you heal some emotional wounds. It may be a past lover, a spouse, or even your father, but they will serve as a messenger of light, who empowers you to feel more centered, more confident in your mission, and more aware of what you wish to pursue from now on. They may serve as someone who helps you remember your true goals, and heal past trauma, related to your identity and the expression of your unique personality.
Re-gaining this sort of confidence and self-knowledge is the quintessence of building healthy relationships!
This will influence you whether you are single, or in a relationship, dear Cancer, as having a better sense of who we are, equips us with the emotional stability we need in order to attract and build a relationship, based on trust, loyalty, and true partnership.
You will still not be entirely ready for new beginnings, dear Cancer, as Mercury is going retrograde in Scorpio, in your 5th house of love, sex, and creativity!
This will indeed be a soul-shattering influence for you, dear Cancers, as you will feel the intensity of this influence even more as a water sign. Emotions will be raging, your sexuality might be heightened, and you will feel like you need to get to the root of every single issue and problem you might have in your love life!
If you are in a relationship,
You might start feeling jealous, more suspicious, and sarcastic towards your partner, and you might also feel drawn towards more kinky things in bed. All this is the most basic, lower manifestation of Mercury going retrograde in Scorpio in your 5th house, dear Cancers, which may also involve manipulation through bringing up past mistakes; using sex as a ‘weapon’, and a way to play with the other person’s mind.
I always urge you to strive for the higher manifestation of each planetary influence, dear Cancer, and therefore the retrograde motion of Mercury in your 5th house can provide you with an amazing opportunity to explore more of each other’s needs with your partner. Rather than bringing up past issues only to hurt each other, use them to explore how you can better please each other. Open up some deep communication and really de-clutter your most intimate space by learning what are some hidden desires of your partner. What are some things that can make you both more satisfied in the relationship.
What are some creative projects you can do together?
This is a great influence to get entertained together with a crime series, a mystery novel, or a game-book with puzzles, riddles, and mysteries to solve.
All these activities are further supported by Venus transiting into Virgo,
Which you can use to do something detail-oriented with your partner, rather than becoming more critical towards each other.
Mercury going retrograde in your 5th may also bring up the topic about children,
as well as re-considering your views on children, how you raise them, when you want to have children, etc. Again, this is an opportunity to either become closer to your partner by opening up and authentically pouring out your soul in regard to these topics, or distancing from each other by keeping secrets, and using the topic to manipulate each other. It REALLY is all up to you!
IF YOU ARE SINGLE, YOU WILL BE EMPOWERED FOR A DEEP SELF-ANALYSIS THAT WILL ENABLE YOU TO ATTRACT THE PARTNER THAT TRULY GIVES JOY TO YOUR SOUL IN THE FUTURE.
Believe me, as I speak from experience, there is nothing more important for manifesting the relationship you want than getting rid of your fears and asking yourself questions like:
- What are the fears that are blocking my way to new love?
- How am I sabotaging myself and my new relationships?
- What are the old habits that are putting me in a vicious circle of failed relationships?
If you would like personalized help on getting to the root of these answers as well as finding actionable solutions that work, you can book a consultation with me through this page.
YOU CAN ALSO USE THE POWER OF JUPITER IN SEXTILE WITH NEPTUNE,
which in combination with Mercury going retrograde is a one-of-a-lifetime opportunity to turn inward and get in very close connection with your Higher Self, with your guiding angels, and all the light forces that are supporting you. You can use this time to meditate, pray, and get all the answers that you need on how to move forward with a relationship, or what are the steps you need to take in order to attract your dream life partner.
WE ALSO HAVE VENUS TRANSITING INTO VIRGO IN THE BEGINNING OF THE MONTH,
which will help us take a much more down-to-earth, practical, and realistic look into our relationships, which may be a very good influence with all the other fiery emotions that are taking place this month. It is a good influence to take a more practical approach in your relationship, and do things with your partner that need attention to detail and perfecting – like cleaning your space, tiding things up, getting rid of unnecessary clothes, objects and furniture. You must beware of not becoming too critical towards each other, though. Use the Virgo energy to do some tidying up of your material and emotional space, rather than criticizing each other’s imperfections.
THE NEW MOON IN THE MIDDLE OF THE MONTH WILL BE IN YOUR 4TH HOUSE, DEAR CANCER,
and will further give you a chance for emotional healing and getting to the root of all the things that can empower you to manifest your dreams and desires. I will have a separate blog post and video about this New Moon, so DO subscribe to my Youtube channel and my blog for timely notifications!
THE FULL MOON ON THE 31ST OF OCTOBER WILL END THE MONTH IN CONJUNCTION WITH URANUS in your 11th house, dear Cancer,
which can drive you to rash, unexpected decisions, which are driven by our need for freedom. However, since the Uranus energy is very much in tune with the 11th house, this is still good news for you, dear Cancers! This Full Moon will spread its influence by mid-November, when Mars stations to turn direct, and therefore will provide you with a finalized vision on your social status and dealings
This 31st of October Full Moon will be the final push for you, Dear Cancer!
You will see things wrapping up, and final decisions being made that will shape your personal and love life in the upcoming 2021. This is why it is absolutely critical how you navigate the astro weather during the next month and a half, dear Cancer, as it can make or break your future!
Don’t give into the lower manifestation of Uranus, subsiding into sporadic actions and rash decisions – rather strive for things that will give freedom to your soul, while giving you a sense of stability in the physical world. Again, I will have a separate video and blog post for this Full Moon, so do subscribe for timely notifications!
Indeed, it will be an interesting and intense month for you, Cancer, but I urge you to strive for the higher manifestation of each of the planetary positions. Come back to this blog post and video a few times during the month, if you need, for some encouragement, and ALWAYS trust that the Universe has your back.
I love you and send you all the blessings in the world!