Please, do check out the intro about the collective influence of the astrological forces in October here.
The full Moon in conjunction with Chiron in the beginning of the month will be happening in your first house, dear Aries, and with Mars also still in its retrograde motion there, you will indeed be seeing a situation in your love life, coming closer to a resolution this October. You will have the support of Venus, trining Mars, and the push of Pluto, going direct in your 10th house of your true mission and social status.
You will be able to see some of the emotional wounds from the past that have been hindering your relationships so far,
and you will be able to gain new confidence, which will empower you to make the changes needed to have different love experiences in the future. Hopefully, you’ve made some ‘clean-up’ of your daily routines and habits, as suggested by the September New Moon, which you will now see the results of – clarity of mind and a crystalized vision of WHO you want to be in a relationship and HOW you want to be seen by your partner.
This self-analysis will be further enhanced by Mercury going retrograde in your 8th house of mutual resources, psychology, astral projections, and sex, and if you are in a relationship, you may initially find yourself discussing sensitive topics with your partner. Mercury going retrograde in Scorpio may make you more suspicious, more jealous, and more skeptical and sarcastic, but these are all the lower manifestations of this position.
Instead, try to use this position to gain new depths into the communication with your partner
and really clarify how you two can better support and empower each other. Use this moment to really get to the core of any issues you might have and discuss how you can re-structure your life together, so that each of you feels more joy, happiness, and stability in the relationship. It’s also a good time to have honest conversations about your sexual needs and how you can better satisfy and give pleasure to each other.
Mercury being retrograde in the eight house may also play out as the need for you to give some space to your partner, so that each of you can distance yourself from an emotionally heated situation (if there is such one). It may play out as each of you withdrawing and re-assessing how much each of you is getting and receiving in the relationship. Since the Sun will be in Libra for most of the month, you will feel the need for balance and fairness in the relationship.
If you are single, you will be empowered for a deep self-analysis that will enable you to attract the partner that truly gives joy to your soul in the future.
Believe me, as I speak from experience, there is nothing more important for manifesting the relationship you want than getting rid of your fears and asking yourself questions like:
- What are the fears that are blocking my way to new love?
- How am I sabotaging myself and my new relationships?
- What are the old habits that are putting me in a vicious circle of failed relationships?
If you would like personalized help on getting to the root of these answers as well as finding actionable solutions that work, you can book a consultation with me through this page.
You can also use the power of Jupiter in sextile with Neptune,
which in combination with Mercury going retrograde is a one-of-a-lifetime opportunity to turn inward and get in very close connection with your Higher Self, with your guiding angels, and all the light forces that are supporting you. You can use this time to meditate, pray, and get all the answers that you need on how to move forward with a relationship, or what are the steps you need to take in order to attract your dream life partner.
We also have Venus transiting into Virgo in the beginning of the month,
which will help us take a much more down-to-earth, practical, and realistic look into our relationships, which may be a very good influence with all the other fiery emotions that are taking place this month. It is a good influence to take a more practical approach in your relationship, and do things with your partner that need attention to detail and perfecting – like cleaning your space, tiding things up, getting rid of unnecessary clothes, objects and furniture. You must beware of not becoming too critical towards each other, though. Use the Virgo energy to do some tidying up of your material and emotional space, rather than criticizing each other’s imperfections.
The new Moon in the middle of the month will again be in your 1st-7th house axis, dear Aries,
and will further emphasize the need for change, and for doing all the things I talked about earlier. I will have a separate blog post and video about this New Moon, so do subscribe to my Youtube channel and my blog for timely notifications!
The Full Moon on the 31st of October will end the month in conjunction with Uranus in Taurus,
which can drive you to rash, unexpected decisions, which are driven by our need for freedom. It will be happening in your 12th house, dear Aries, and this can have a secret affair surfacing, or some secret from the past, or again – fears and self-sabotaging behaviors hidden deeply in your subconscious mind. So, the right approach, rather than subsiding into sporadic actions and breakdowns, as we might be tempted by Uranus – would be a better idea to act as per the higher manifestation of this configuration – pour our energy into uniquely creative project like drawing, dancing, singing. Take out your feelings into prayer; look for new, unique, and innovative practices like guided meditations, brainwave entrainment, and other methods that will help you deal with your inner demons and first aim to gain the sense of stability within yourself, in order to be able to attract it into a relationship.
Indeed, it will be an interesting and intense month for you, Aries, but I urge you to strive for the higher manifestation of each of the planetary positions. Come back to this blog post and video a few times during the month, if you need, for some encouragement, and ALWAYS trust that the Universe has your back.
I love you and send you all the blessings in the world!